Married for 23 years. I have a 21-year-old daughter who moved out to start her job, so now it's just my husband and me. We've been sexless since our child was born. Other than that, we're an average dual-income couple with a mediocre marriage. A year ago, as soon as I was freed from child-rearing, I felt restless... couldn't hold back any longer and had a physical relationship with a colleague without any romantic feelings. My first sex in 20 years was so scary that I couldn't even move my body, and the other person ended up losing their erection midway. Worst ever. In the end, I had sex with that colleague about three times over the course of a month. Bored with sex from my colleague, I found the next partner for sex. And when bored again, find another... My husband is probably playing around outside too.
